See the Whole Person
Comment on her photo, then ask about the holiday in the background. Women here are used to men who only talk about their body.
For admirers
Love Curvy Women? Meet the Ones Who Want You Too
Where men who like plus size women meet curvy women who are glad they do.
The Dating Site for Men Who Like Bigger Women
If you have always been drawn to curvy, plus size or BBW women, Curvy Dates is the dating site built for you to meet them openly. More than four in ten of our members are women, and every one of them chose a curvy dating site, where admirers are part of the point. You will not need to hint at your preference or wonder how it will land.
Many men have spent years quietly preferring fuller figures while their friends assumed otherwise. Some have been called chubby chasers, or fat admirers, and not always kindly. On this site, liking curves is simply your type, the way someone else likes tall men or redheads, and it makes a very good opening line.
What curvy women tell us they want
Be the Admirer She Has Been Hoping for
Attraction gets you noticed. Respect is what gets you a second date.
Be Proud to Be Seen
Plenty of plus size women have dated men who would not hold their hand in public. Being happy to be seen together means a great deal.
Never Comment on Her Plate
No remarks on what she eats, whether to encourage or discourage. Let her enjoy dinner the way you would want to.
The Women You Will Meet
Our women members are grown-ups. More than half are between 35 and 54, and around a quarter are 65 or over, so this is a particularly good place for men in their forties, fifties and sixties who want a partner of a similar age. Most live in the UK, especially in London, Greater Manchester, Kent, Essex, Lancashire and Yorkshire, with women members across the USA and Canada too.
They describe themselves in their own words: curvy, voluptuous, BBW, SSBBW, plus sized, chubby or cuddly and plump. Read what each term means in our guide to what BBW means, and before your first date, read dating a plus size woman, written from the woman's side of the table.
Admirers Are Welcome. Fetish-Only Accounts Are Not.
There is a difference between preferring curves and treating a woman as a body type. Members who send explicit photos unasked, push for sexual chat in the first message or talk about weight in ways she has not invited break our community rules, and women can report or block them in a tap. That is how Curvy Dates stays a place women want to be, which is exactly what makes it worth your while. Our safety page explains the rules.
Questions From Admirers
Is There a Dating App for Men Who Like Plus Size Women?
Yes. Curvy Dates works on any phone and can be added to your home screen like an app. See our BBW dating app page.
Is It OK to Be a Chubby Chaser?
Being attracted to bigger women is completely fine, and it is why women join this site. What matters is treating the women you meet as people first.
How Many Women Are on Curvy Dates?
More than four in ten members are women.
Can Women Who Like Bigger Men Join?
Of course. Read about BHM dating for the big handsome men on the site.
She Is Looking for a Man Who Loves Her Curves
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