BBW and BHM Couples
Plenty of curvy women would love a partner who is big too: someone who will never comment on second helpings and will happily share a pudding.
Big handsome men welcome
BHM Dating: Big Men, Big Hearts, Real Attraction
For plus size men who want to be fancied, and the women and men who love a bigger build.
BHM Dating, Where Your Size Is a Plus
BHM stands for big handsome man. BHM dating is for plus size, chubby and heavy-set men and the people who are drawn to them, and Curvy Dates welcomes them alongside curvy women. More than half of our members are men, and BHM is one of the interests members can put on their profile, both to describe themselves and to say what they are looking for.
Bigger men often get overlooked on mainstream apps in a way that is rarely talked about. A lot of profiles there ask for "athletic" or "slim", and the dating advice aimed at men assumes a gym habit. On a plus size dating site the starting point is different: women who love broad shoulders, a proper belly and a bear hug are here precisely because they want a man like you.
Who BHMs meet here
More Than One Way to Be a Perfect Match
Big men date curvy women, slimmer women, and each other. All of it is welcome.
Women Who Prefer Big Men
Some women of every size simply find bigger men more attractive. They search for BHM and cuddly profiles on purpose.
Gay and Bi Big Men
Men looking for men are welcome too. Say who you are interested in on your profile and matches follow.
A Profile That Gets Replies
Men on dating sites tend to make the same few mistakes, and big men make them more often because they are used to hiding. Here is what works better on Curvy Dates.
- Show your build. One clear photo from the waist up and one full-length. Sunglasses and group shots make people wonder which one you are.
- Smile, and do something. A picture of you at the football, in the kitchen or walking the dog says more than a mirror selfie.
- Write about her, not just you. A line about the kind of date you would like to take someone on gets more replies than a list of your hobbies.
- Verify. The free ID or video check puts a badge on your profile, which is the quickest way to show women you are real.
Our plus size dating profile tips have more, including what to write in the first message.
Big Men Near You
Members live mainly in the UK, the USA and Canada, and your daily matches favour people nearby. Our locations pages suggest relaxed first-date spots in each city, with proper seating. If you prefer the word chubby, our chubby dating page is written for you as well.
BHM Dating Questions
What Does BHM Mean?
BHM means big handsome man. It is the male counterpart of BBW, big beautiful woman, and describes plus size men who are proud of their build.
Is There a Dating Site for Plus Size Men?
Yes. Curvy Dates welcomes big handsome men alongside curvy women, and the people who love both.
Can I Meet Other Big Men?
Yes. Set your profile to show you are interested in men, and your matches will include men who are interested in you.
Do Women Really Prefer Big Men?
Plenty do, and they are the ones who join a site like this. Attraction comes in every shape, and here you meet the people whose taste includes yours.
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